Monday, March 27, 2006

Softball Stars

On Saturday the courageous and almighty IBM Softball team turned up at Strathfield Park bright and early at 8am to compete in the Corporate Games. Having only attended 1-2 training sessions - it was time to put our skills and talent to the test!

Our final results:

  • 1st Game: Lost
  • 2nd Game: Won (forfeited - other team didn't show up hehe)
  • 3rd Game: Lost
  • 4th Game: Lost (but it was a close match!)
Hehehehaha OK OK, so we didn't do too well - but it was loads of fun, a great day for Softball on a Saturday and the team was amazingly high-spirited at all times!!! =) Thanks for the fun and memories guys, including:
  • Jo deciding to 'choose' her moment to run
  • Bobby bunting illegally
  • Jenn lost at the bases
  • Mel's super backstop catches and scoring our first home run!
  • Jon mentally losing it cos of our silly mistakes
  • Shane's bowling cricket style
  • Varun with the perfect pitches
  • Meeta's oh-so-cute runs
  • Aaron's perfect catches at 1st base
  • Catherine's super bating
  • Christine and her cute "nerves"
  • Kirit and his gf
  • Ajay and his wicked fielding


Note to Jon: we did NOT let you down - YOU just need to lighten up =P
Second note to Jon: as you ARE our captain AND coach, please inform us of the proper and complete rules next time ;) Haha!

Third & Special note to Jon: Thanks for organising such a fun event and for getting us top freebie shirts!!!

Jenn

Thursday, March 23, 2006

There's no place like Home

So life as I know it returns to normal. I’ve been back in Syd for a week now and I’m absolutely totally LOVING IT! I got to spend quality time with friends on the weekend as well as last night with Mel and Jenny. They’re SOOOO fun to hang out with. I’d pick them to live on a stranded Island anyday =) I’m also taking time to come home and have dinner with Mum and Sis – ahhh…free yummy home-cooked meal!

We’ve also moved buildings here on Help St. No more lifts breaking down, busted-up air con, dirty/smelly kitchen and stale non-lighted environment. We’ve moved on to a bigger and better work environment! Yay! Everyone is happy with the exception of Rad (who constantly complains about how bad his desk is – although, it’s quite alright) and Jon who is SUPER DUPER happy with his corner scenic view desk (how much he paid Vodafone to get that seat –I have no idea haha!)

There hasn’t been much changes since I’ve been back, except for the fact that my sister can actually drive now (was surprised she was able to stay on her side of the road for once), mum having the time of her life during the week AND the weekend, Dad being super nice to me (since I’m helping him out with his wedding) and I’m starting to eBay again.

I don’t think I’ll be back in NZ for a long while (YES!) – so til then, I’m going to make the most of my time here.

*Hugs for all*
Jenn

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

Ten top tips for your 20s

I was checking out my Hotmail and you know when you log out of it, a really annoying nineMSN always pops up with the most un-interesting articles?! This time however, I found something I could relate to - check it out! This is for all you peops who are lazy with their money or just don't give a damn.

Ten top tips for your 20s
Allison Tait


At this stage of life, a mortgage seems like a life sentence and retirement is for really old people. So what should you be doing with your money? Here's your "to do" list for the decade.

1) Aim to learn something

"One of the best things you can do at this stage of life is to look to improve your financial literacy," says Matthew Walker, director of Sydney's WLM Financial Services Pty Ltd. "Read books, take a course, search the Internet or talk to people with experience."

2) Think about tomorrow

So you're scrabbling to buy your lunch today, let alone the rent at the end of the week? While the big ticket tomorrow items such as a mortgage, superannuation and all that other grown-up stuff might seem a long way off, the truth is that it's never too early to set up some shorter term goals. Saving for a car or a holiday is a great way to fast-track a sense of achievement — and it sets up an invaluable habit. Walker suggests putting aside 10 percent of what you earn as a start.

3) Get a habit

Speaking of habits, saving isn't the only one you should be fostering. "Getting together a budget or money plan is the best way to get into the habit of living within your means," say Sheila Freeman and Helene Richards, co-authors of Money Management for Women (UNSW Press).

4) Deal with the 'credit monster'

While it may make you feel better, binning your credit or store card statement without opening it is a recipe for disaster. "Aim to pay off the cards," say Freeman and Richards. "Hit the ones with the higher interest first and always make more than the minimum repayment." It wouldn't hurt to take a look at your spending habits at the same time — earning your first decent pay cheques can bring out the shopaholic in all of us, but stopping for a moment to ask yourself if you really need that 75th handbag might make a difference to your bank balance.

5) Stay at home

If it's at all possible (and pleasurable), consider staying at home with the parents. You won't be alone — heaps of 20-somethings make the financial decision to stay home and get some savings together.

6) Try to do a lot with a little

When you're in your first job and earning what seems like peanuts, it can be hard to get excited about investing. Don't you need to be rich for that? In fact, you need less than you think to get some wealth creation strategies underway. "If you have some money saved, what you do with it depends on when and how you want to use it," says Walker. "If the goal is short-term, invest it in cash, but if it's a longer term, a managed fund or even direct shares might be an option. Whatever the case, look at the opportunities out there. If nothing else, you'll learn from your experiences (positive or negative)."

7) Work out what you want to be when you grow up

While there's no denying that this is the time for experimentation, it's also true that wealth is generally a long-term project. For that reason, it's good to be earning regular cash for as long as possible. Lying on the couch daydreaming about getting rich is not an effective strategy. "Getting established in a career and earning a regular wage should be one of the financial focuses of your 20s," says Freeman and Richards.

8) Read the fine print

"These days, credit is too easy to come by," says Walker. "Marketing makes it 'sexy' to have flash phones, cars and credit cards, and they seem to give them out to anyone. Unless you understand your obligations and/or are disciplined, you can wind up with large bills that can cripple your cash flow."Freeman and Richards agree. "Mobile phones can be a particular problem. Always check the fine print before entering into a contract and be sure you can sustain it financially."

9) Make time work for you

The beauty of being in your 20s is that time is on your side. "People this age can make mistakes and recover," says Walker. "They have time to make more money and save; they have time to compound investments over a reasonably long time-frame." Which means that your savings have a long time to grow into something worthwhile. And the same goes for superannuation — that $10 a week you put in now could make for a very comfortable (or even early!) retirement.

10) Understand your money

The fact is, you're not a kid any more, whether you're 20 and one day, or practically 30. Your finances are your responsibility and there's probably not a Prince (or Princess for that matter) waiting to sweep you off your feet and out of a financial disaster zone. "Focus on learning the true value of money and how to be responsible for your own," says Walker. For more information on WLM Financial Services Pty Ltd, visit www.wlm.com.au. To download an updated version of Money Management for Women ($19), visit www.sheilafreemanconsulting.biz

Jenn

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

The Better Sibling

I was thinking about the childhood that I had and realised how sheltered I lived it. I never got to watch the normal TV that most kids got to watch – including Playschool and Sesame Street. I also never really got a Barbie – sure I got weird dolls, or crying babies that shitted when you fed it – but never a Barbie! Ahhh I was so deprived!

Being the oldest has had it’s deprived moments. I couldn’t do the following things while I was growing up:
  • No boyfriend
  • No going out past 4pm
  • No dying my hair full stop
  • No painting my nails
  • No watching “AO” now “MA15+” and “R18+” shows
  • No watching kissing scenes at all times
  • No swearing
  • No wearing school skirts above knees
  • No wearing other than Navy-coloured undies at school (i know - gross)

Ok so that’s a lot of “NO’s” and seriously the list just goes on….! So unfair cos my sister grew up doing all those things and more! Bloody hell – being the oldest has it’s major disadvantages.

But then again when I think about it – I’ve grown up to be the BETTER sibling. Ahh sorry Sis ;)

Jenn

P.S. I can't wait to fly back this Thurs and I also get to stay in Syd for the next week - YAY! =)

Monday, March 13, 2006

Vietnam Photos are up!

My Vietnam photos are finally up - YAY! =)

Check em out - alllllll 7 albums - alllll 763 Photos! MUhahaha

Friday, March 10, 2006

Thoughts...

It’s almost 1am in the morning and I can’t sleep. I just realised I’m turning 23 this year.

I have all these thoughts running through my head at the moment – career pending questions. What do I want for this year? How am I going to get where I want to be? How detail should I plan my career out? Should I plan? I’m scared and confused.

I then think of where I am now and wonder if it’s where I really want to be. Am I where I thought I’d be? What do I want? I don’t know.

14 months have passed since I first joined IBM. I was new and naïve. I didn’t know what to expect and took my role as a Graduate for granted. I’m now in my second year of work and I feel like I haven’t progressed much. I feel like I SHOULD have progressed further but as I haven’t acted upon much, it makes sense that I haven’t progressed as far as I would have liked. I need to change.

I need to change my way of thinking. I need to think about my career more seriously and I need to plan out what I want out of this job. Who do I want to be? What role do I want to play in this corporate world? I need to set it out, be more professional and I need to act now.

I’m taking my first “career-setting” action today and will see how it goes. Wish me luck! I wonder if maturity will heighten because of this. Perhaps so.

Jenn


Today the sun will rise
And life will bloom.
The world will work
As I sit in my corner and ponder
About the way things are.
Midday will set
And stomachs will be filled
With shared laughter.
The sun will fall
With the world at its knees.
And you will retire
With sadden eyes
To the comfort of sighs
And think, is this all?
Is this all to the risen sun?

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Girly QLD Trip Feb06

I just realised that I haven’t blogged about our girly QLD trip! Gosh – I’m getting really forgetful these days (sign of old age creeping up on me haha).

The Gorgeous Girls

Our surprise 3 Day weekend getaway was loads of fun! Since Nattie and I organised it – none of the girls knew where we were going! So it was quite surprising for them when we made them rock up at my place at 7am and then headed off to the airport! Haha Loser Lynda packed her things into this green Santa-like SACK! Gawd – seriously Lynda! *rolls her eyes*

Memorable moments of the trip:

  • Lynda and her Santa Sack
  • Telling the girls we’re staying in a backpackers hostel – then surprising them again with our nice apartment =)
  • Owning our own Nissan Pulsar for 3 Days!
  • Shopping!!!
  • Iced Coffees @ Jamaica Blue (Yummo – we got addicted!)
  • Truccie “night walking” into Agnes during the night haha!
  • Yummy Buffet Dinner at the Gold Coast International Hotel!
  • Last Dreamworld ride made everyone sick (except me – hehe!)

  • Painting our nails – putting make up on!
  • Successfully making Risotto dinner for all
  • Day Trip @ South Stradbroke Island: Tube riding, kayaking in the pelting rain with
  • Truccie and swimming in our own ‘private pool’
  • Dancing at random night clubs

Agnes enjoying the music!

  • Lynda disappearing at the Beach at night – some guy randomly pissing on the sand in front of us (yuK!)
  • Couldn’t stop laughing at Infinity - soo FUN!
  • Getting matching Diamonte named Bands (a bit sad but cute!)

We had a budget of $100 each…but then it kinda went outta hand, and we all ended up spending bout $450 each haha! Quite cheap for an interstate trip for 3 days I thought =)

I can’t wait for our next Girly Surprise Trip! We’re planning on having one every 6 weeks or so – the next one should be coming up in early May (Lynda/Agnes – you guys better organise a better trip hehe!)

Ok over and out!

Jenn

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

I want the *NEW* Honda Civic!

Gosh remind me never to write anything personal in here anymore. The news of Peter and I getting back together spread so fast! Did anyone read/care about the other events in my life?! Haha.

I can now officially call myself independent! *Bright lights and Music* For the first time in my life, I had takeaway dinner alone in my hotel room. Not only was it yummy (Korean), but it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. So there you go – another first ;)

Quite funny the night when I checked in cos when I opened the door to my room, there was this funny noisy, blue electric corded box, with fancy blue light coming out from the sides right in the middle of my room! I kinda freaked out cos it looked like a bomb or nuclear reacting object to me – so I called Reception. Haha it turns to be some “ionising” equipment, but pL-ease, could be a spy camera for all I know! What do you guys think?


Also, the BRAND NEW Honda Civic came out this week – I soooOoOo want one! I can’t believe I bought my Civic brand new 14months ago, and then they bring out this whole new range of civics. WaaHhHh! Wonder if I’ll be crazy enough to trade in my Civic for this one – hmms *ponders excitedly* Haha! Agnes is getting one soon – sooo JeALOus!


I’m also not feeling too well the past few days – having this major upset stomach that is on and off all day. *silently prays to get better soon*

My thought of the day:

On my trip to Vietnam, I got to know my mum and sis a lot better. I realised that we weren’t spending enough time as a family and I am grateful that I have them to support, love and care for me and I appreciate all they have done. Two Thumbs Up! =)

Mum, Sis & I

Thursday, March 02, 2006

Back in NZ already!

We made it!

12 days in Vietnam and now we're back here alive, safe, darker and FATTER in Sydney =)! I've had the most extraordinary experiences the past two weeks and I can't wait to go again!

The final few days of our trip, I finally got to meet my Grandmother (Mum's) and stayed with my aunties for two nights. The place was quite nice compared to the surrounding residents - 3 storeys high.

Can you believe I’m back in NZ already?! Had a quick catch up session with the girls on the weekend on my return from Vietnam and straight away – I’m back to NZ again. Gosh! =P

I really don’t want to be here right now. I’m tired, lonely and I miss my family and I miss all of you guys in Sydney.

Oooo my Dad is also getting married in a month and I’ve been chosen to be one of the bridesmaids (along with Pandora and Sis). Can you believe it?! How exciting! Spent Sunday shopping round for a dress and decided on Baby Pink dresses for all of us. Haha – how typical! =) It sorta looks like this but without the straps. We look really cute when all of us is wearing it.


Oh and the biggest news of all – Peter and I are back together now. Which is another reason why I want to stay back in Syd! After a long conversation and a whole 2 months of pondering – I decided to go with how I really feel and just “Go with the flow”. I care about him deeply and I can’t imagine being with anyone else but him at the moment. So if we’re both happy together – then I shouldn’t think too far and just let it be.

I also met Truccie in Vietnam and we caught up for lunch before I headed back to the airport. I miss her already and I hope she’s having a blast. Speaking of Vietnam – I have soooo many photos to upload. Y’know I ended up taking 2000 – yes that’s 2000 photos all up! Haha – sooo SnApPy HaPpY! Hahahaha – so I need to pick the ones that are really nice and will upload them soon. I’ve decided against ‘writing’ about my whole trip and will let my photos do the story-telling instead =)

Truccie and Me in Vietnam - Yay! =)


My grandparents, aunties, uncles and cousins were the bomb! They reminded me of Vietnam versions of my parents (weird I know) and we were really sad to say goodbye to all of em. Wish we could have stayed longer =) Even though Vietnam was super dirty and ‘dodgy’ at times – I really liked it!! Hehe (hmms..wonder if that says something about me – haha)


Me, Sis, Grandmother, Grandfather (Dad's side of the family)

My cousins, me and sis (Yes that's me in a "I LOVE BOYS" Tee)

Ok this blogging is making me feel better – starting to make me forget about not wanting to be here. Justine is here with me this week – which is good! I’ll have a lunch/dinner buddy for the week – Yay! It’s gonna be so weird without Adrian here - hope all is well in his new role at NAB (*cough*TRAITOR*cough* haha)

Missing you all lots

Jenn